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"Take care of each other. Share
your energies with the group. No one must feel alone,
cut off, for that is when you do not make it."
Willi Unsoeld, renowned mountain climber
"The firmest friendships have
been formed in mutual adversity, as iron is most
strongly united by the fiercest flame."
Charles Caleb Colton
"An unshared life is not living.
He who shares does not lessen, but greatens, his
life."
Rabbi Stephen S. Wise
"We are, each of us angels with
only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one
another."
Luciano De Crescenzo, author
"How far you go in life depends
on your being tender with the young, compassionate
with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and
tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday
in life you will have been all of these."
George Washington Carver
"Every person you meet—and
everything you do in life—is an opportunity
to learn something. "
Tom Clancy, author
"To keep your resolve, surround
yourself with those who want you to succeed. The
brain cannot do its job of protecting the body without
contact with other people."
Robert Ornstein and David Sobel in The Healing
Brain
"I refuse to accept the view
that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless
midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak
of peace and brotherhood can never become reality.
I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love
will have the final word."
Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
"Success depends above all,
upon people. Build relationships, teams, partnerships—and
motivate people to contribute. Cultivate leadership,
creativity, excellence. Listen; seek new ideas and
advice. "
Ruth Scott
"Gardens, scholars say, are
the first sign of commitment to a community. When
people plant corn they are saying, let's stay here.
And by their connection to the land, they are connected
to one another."
Anne Raver
"Getting along well with other
people is still the world's most needed skill. With
it…there is no limit to what person can do. We need
people, we need the cooperation of others. There
is very little we can do alone."
Earl Nightingale
"Every function in . . . cultural
development appears twice: First, on the social level,
and later on the individual level; first between
people (interpsychological), and then inside (intrapsychological).
This applies equally to voluntary attention, to logical
memory, and to the formation of concepts. All the
higher functions originate as actual relationships
between individuals."
Lev Vygotsky
"Anytime a change takes place
in the future, it starts as a vision in someone's
mind. The person draws other people into that vision
and when enough people are drawn into share that
vision, it explodes into activity."
Nancy Hathaway
"Snowflakes are one of nature's
most fragile things, but just look what they can
do when they stick together."
Vista M. Kelly
"It is good to rub and polish
our brain against that of others."
Michael De Montaigne
"Good friendships are fragile
things and require as much care as any other fragile
and precious thing."
Randolph Bourne
"The only service a friend can
really render is to keep up your courage by holding
up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image
of yourself."
George Bernard Shaw
"In helping others, we shall
help ourselves, for what ever good we give out completes
the circle and comes back to us."
Hora Edwards
"Happiness in life is not measured
by the things we achieve, the places we go, or the
route that we take to get there. Happiness in life
is measured by the people that we share all of our
experiences with."
Chris Needham
"The only true gift is a portion
of yourself."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
"It is a good idea to be ambitious,
to have goals, to want to be good at what you do,
but it is a terrible mistake to let drive and ambition
get in the way of treating people with kindness and
decency. The point is not that they will then be
nice to you. It is that you will feel better about
yourself."
Robert Merton Solow
"He that wrestles with us strengthens
our nerves and sharpens our skill. Our antagonist
in our helper."
Edmund Burke
"The finest gift you can give
anyone is encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets
the encouragement they need to grow to their full
potential. If everyone received the encouragement
they need to grow, the genius in most everyone would
blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond
our wildest dreams."
Sidney Madwed
"An authentic leader acts in
ways which serve to elevate those around him."
Sean M. Georges
"How can you have charisma?
Be more concerned about making others feel good about
themselves than you are making them feel good about
you."
Dan Reiland
"Never doubt that a small group
of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the
world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."
Margaret Mead
"Shared values are the glue
that holds this organization together"
Shelly Brown
"A community is like a ship;
everyone ought to be prepared to take the helm."
Henrik Ibsen
"It may have happened that,
at some point in my life, I took some part of me
out of the darkness and placed it in the light for
the eyes of another. It may be that this other person
did not understand, and I ran full of regrets into
a painful emotional solitude. Yet, there may have
been other moments when someone heard my secret and
accepted my confidence in gentle hands. I remember
the gentle pressure that told me I was understood.
It was a great and liberating experience, and in
its wake I felt so much more alive. An immense need
had been answered in me to be really listened to,
to be taken seriously, and to be understood. It is
only through this kind of sharing that we come to
know ourselves. Introspection of itself is helpless.
We can confide all of our secrets to the docile pages
of a personal diary, but we can know ourselves and
experience the fullness of life only in the sharing
with another person."
John Powell
"Nobody, but nobody
Can make it out here alone."
Maya Angelou, from the poem "Alone"
"He who knows others is wise;
He who knows himself is enlightened."
Lao-Tzu
"There is overwhelming evidence
that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more
likely one will be to treat others with respect,
kindness, and generosity."
Nathaniel Branden
"Each friend represents a world
in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive,
and it is only by this meeting that this new world
is born."
Anaïs Nin
"Community is...a dynamic set
of relationships in which a synergistic, self-regulating
whole is created out of the combination of individual
parts into a cohesive, identifiable, unified form."
Center for the Study of Community, Santa Fe, New
Mexico
"The Master Mind principle:
Two or more people actively engaged in the pursuit
of a definite purpose with a positive mental attitude,
constitute an unbeatable force."
Napoleon Hill
"Isolation is a blind alley.
. . . Nothing on the planet grows except by convergence."
Teilhard de Chardin
"The ultimate use of power is
to empower others."
William Glasser
"Communities are places or entities
where each member can give something, where they
can contribute something that they feel especially
able to give, something that they are good at. The
gift from each member is valued by the whole community
and all gifts are unique and individual. The gift
that community gives back to each member is that
of a role and a connection."
Ed Margarson
"True friendship is like sound
health; the value of it is seldom known until it
be lost."
Charles Caleb Colton
"Don't walk in front of me,
I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not
lead. Walk beside me and be my friend."
Albert Camus
"Friendship is one mind in two
bodies."
Mencius
"I'll lean on you and you lean
on me and we'll be okay."
Dave Matthews Band
"Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen
to what you don't say."
Anonymous
"We all take different paths
in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little
of each other everywhere"
Tim McGraw
"Become the world's most thoughtful
friend."
H. Jackson Brown, Jr., author
"We are all healers of each
other. Look at David Spiegel's fascinating study
of putting people together in a support group and
seeking that some people in it live twice as long
as other people who are not in a support group. I
asked David what went on in those groups and he said
that people just cared about each other. Nothing
big, no deep psychological stuff--people just cared
about each other. The reality is that healing happens
between people."
Rachel Naomi Remen
"We provide both irritation
and inspiration for each other—the grist for
each other's pearl making."
Stephen Nachmonovitch
"It takes two to know one."
Gregory Bateson
"The miracle is this. . . . The
more we share, the more we have."
Leonard Nimoy
Don't talk about your troubles.
No one loves a sad face.
Oh, Mom, the truth is
Cheer isolates,
Humor defends,
Competence intimidates,
Control separates,
And sadness,
Sadness opens us each to the other.
—Poem
by a cancer patient, in
Bill Moyers' Healing and the Mind
"The greatest single step in
organic evolution was the aggregation of different
bacteria to make the nucleated cell. Similarly, the
greatest step so far in our cultural evolution has
been the aggregation of different cultures to make
multi-cultures. There are many kinds of multi-culture,
ranging from multinational corporations to major
cities like New York. But the self-complication of
human culture will not stop there, because it is
a self-propelled process. Today's multi-cultures
are like the creatures of a colony, coexisting as
more or less isolated ‘ghettos.' Tomorrow's multi-cultures
will be more like genuine multi-cellular organism's,
in which ‘extelligence' is specialized like the different
tissues of a complex animal. Our new communication
technologies are beginning to knit all of the different
multi-cultures into a new entity, a superculture:
Humanity."
Ian Stewart and Jack Cohen
"As we develop soul in our work
we need to recognize our dual identity: We are both
individuals and members of a group. Indeed, finding
the soul of work involves the balance and integration
of apparent opposites, such as head and heart, intellect
and intuition, and self and group. This process is
not so much based on the 'shoulds' but upon ‘what
is.' It is my belief that as we attend to the soul
of work, we will find we feel more complete."
Daryl Paulson
"People are not willing to take
risks when they feel afraid or threatened. But if
you manage people by love—that is, if you show
them respect and trust—they start to perform
up to their real capabilities."
Jan Carlson, CEO, Scandinavian Airlines
"Teamwork is the ability to
work together toward a common vision. The ability
to direct individual accomplishment toward organizational
objectives. It is the fuel that allows common people
to accomplish uncommon results."
Anonymous
I desire that there be as many different persons
in the world as possible; I would have each one be
very careful to find out and preserve his own way.
Henry David Thoreau
"Achievement is a we thing,
not a me thing, always the produce of many heads
and hands."
J. Atkinson
"Team members need to be able
to suspend disbelief, think the unthinkable, and
let intuition and premonitions flow freely. Therefore,
a necessary skill in team members is tolerance for
ambiguity."
Kees van der Heijden
"Two are better than one, because
they have a good reward for their toil. For if they
fall, one will lift up his fellow; woe to him who
is alone when he falls and has not another to lift
him up. Again, if two lie together, they are warm;
but how can one be warm alone? And though a man might
prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand
him. A threefold cord is not quickly broken."
Ecclesiastes 4: 9-13
"A unique relationship develops
among team members who enter into dialogue regularly.
They develop a deep trust that cannot help but carry
over to discussions. They develop a richer understanding
of the uniqueness of each person's point of view."
Peter Senge
"A person's friendships are
one of the best measures of his worth."
Charles Darwin
"He alone has lost the art to
live who cannot win new friends."
S. Weir Mitchell
"Since there is nothing so worth
having as friends, never lose a chance to make them."
Francesco Guicciardini
"A man's growth is seen in the
successive choir of his friends."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Solitude: A good place to visit,
but a poor place to stay."
Josh Billing
"A friend knows the song in
my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails."
Donna Roberts
Help your brother's boat across,
and your own will reach the shore.
Hindu proverb
"The best way to find yourself
is to lose yourself in service to others."
Mahatma Gandhi
"You can get everything you
want in life, if you just help enough other people
get what they want. "
Zig Ziglar
Now this is the Law of the Jungle—as old
and as true as the sky:
And the Wolf that shall keep it may prosper; but
the
Wolf that shall break it must die.
As the creeper that girdles the tree-trunk the
Law runneth forward and back—
For the strength of the Pack is the Wolf,
And the strength of the Wolf is the Pack.
Now this is the Law of the Jungle—as old
and as true as the sky:
And the player that keeps it shall prosper;
But the player that breaks it must die.
As the ball and the parts it is made of
Are bound and held fast at the seam—
The strength of the team is the player;
And the strength of the player the team.
—Rudyard
Kipling
"We need a spirit of community,
a sense that we are al in this together. If we have
no sense of community, the American dream will wither."
Bill Clinton
"Here's what is exciting about
sharing ideas with others: if you share a new idea
with ten people, they get to hear it once and you
get to hear it ten times."
Jim Rohn, speaker and author
"I not only use all the brains
I have, but all I can borrow."
Woodrow Wilson
"We must learn to live together
as brothers or perish together as fools."
Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.
"Knowledge, or anything else
for that matter, really doesn't exist until it is
shared. Intelligent, kind–hearted people who freely
share their knowledge an humanity in the workplace
will find the greatest success."
Joel Schettler
When spiders unite, they can tie up a lion.
Ethiopian proverb
"Nobody wins unless everybody
wins."
Bruce Springsteen
"Friendship is the hardest thing
in the world to explain. It's not something you learn
in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning
of friendship, you really haven't learned anything."
Muhammad Ali
The man who thinks he can live without
others is mistaken; the one who thinks others can't
live without him is even more deluded.
Hasidic saying
"No man is wise enough by himself."
Plautus
If a link is broken, the entire chain breaks.
Yiddish proverb
"Individual commitment to a
group effort, that is what makes a team work, a company
work, a society work, a civilization work."
Vince Lombardi
"Relationships are a prerequisite
for producing results beyond ourselves. They expand
our imaginations to infinite possibilities that cannot
exist in a life of isolation."
Brian Koslow
"We cannot swing up on a rope
that is attached only to our own belt."
William Ernest Hocking
"The most needed, wanted, and
powerful activity in which you can engage on or off
the job is to authentically recognize, acknowledge,
and appreciate others."
Brian Koslow
"Difference is the beginning
of synergy."
Stephen R. Covey, author
"In the long history of humankind
(and animalkind, too) those who learned to collaborate
and improvise most effectively have prevailed."
Charles Darwin
"No man is so wise that he may
not easily err if he takes no other counsel than
his own. He that is taught only by himself has a
fool for a master."
Ben Jonson poet, dramatist
"Good company and good discourse
are the very sinews of virtue."
Izaak Walton
"No matter what accomplishments
you achieve, somebody helped you."
Althea Gibson, tennis champion
"None of us has gotten where
we are solely by pulling ourselves up from our own
bootstraps. We got here because somebody. bent down
and helped us."
Thurgood Marshall, U.S. Supreme Court Justice
"By working together, pooling
our resources and building on our strengths, we can
accomplish great things."
Ronald Reagan, U.S. President
"Never, if possible, lie down
at night without being able to say: 'I have made
one human being, at least, a little wiser, a little
happier, or a little better this day.'"
Charles Kingsley, author
"The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers."
Martin Luther King, Jr.
"If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it."
Margaret Fuller, author and teacher
"Knowledge sharing is the basis of everything. Share
knowledge with reckless abandon."
Tim Sanders, Chief Solutions Officer at Yahoo!
"It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest
by helping others to succeed."
Napoleon Hill, author
"There is no such thing as a 'self-made' man. We are made up of thousands of others. Everyone who has ever done a kind deed for us, or spoken one word of encouragement to
us, has entered into the make-up of our character and of our thoughts, as well as our success."
George Adams, philosopher
When spider webs unite, they can tie up a lion.
Egyptian proverb
"Great men are rarely isolated mountain-peaks; they are the summits of ranges."
Thomas Wentworth Higginson
"Without a sense of caring, there can be no sense of community."
Anthony J. D'Angelo
"The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of one's self to others."
Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
"Everything is connected. No one thing can change by itself."
Paul Hawken, author and entrepreneur
"No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it."
Andrew Carnegie
"A man never gets to this station in life without being helped, aided, shoved, pushed and prodded to do better. I want to be honest with you: The players I played with and the coaches I had, they are directly responsible for my being here. I want you all to remember that. I always will."
Johnny Unitas, professional football player
during his Hall of Fame induction speech
"No man is a failure who has friends."
Henry Travers as Clarence in It's a Wonderful Life
"The team with the best athletes doesn't usually win.
It's the team with the athletes who play best together."
Lisa Fernandez, softball legend
"Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement . . . all success . . . all achievement in real life grows."
Ben Stein, author, actor and economist
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until
they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
Anaïs Nin
"Surround yourself with amazingly intelligent men and women. The people I work with not only are smarter than I am, possessing both intellectual and emotional intelligence, but also share my determination to succeed. I will not make an important decision without them."
George Steinbrenner, owner of the New York Yankees
"A hundred times every day I remind myself that my inner and outer life depend on the labors of other men, living and dead, and that I must exert myself in order to give in the same measure as I have received and am still receiving."
Albert Einstein
"Ask not what your teammates can do for you. Ask what you can do for your teammates."
Earvin "Magic" Johnson
"We don't accomplish anything in this world alone . . . and whatever happens is the result of the whole tapestry of one's life and all the weavings of individual threads from one to another that creates something."
Sandra Day O'Connor
"Coming together is a beginning.
Keeping together is progress.
Working together is success."
Henry Ford
"Whatever power I exert is collegial."
Katharine Graham, former owner, publisher of The Washington Post
"The mark of a good team is how it reacts when things aren't going in its favor."
Chris Osgood, professional hockey player
"You must give some time to your fellow men. Even if it's a little thing, do something for others—something for which you get no pay but the privilege of doing it."
Albert Schweitzer, Nobel Peace Prize winner
"It takes a team to do anything of lasting value."
John Maxwell
"There are no problems we cannot solve together, and very few that we can solve by ourselves."
Lyndon B. Johnson
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